Middle Son has been in New Orleans studying at Loyola University for four years and today he'll don his cap & gown (and bronze Cum Laude rope) and celebrate his graduation. While I've been here for the last month on assignment for ye olde KnockingShitDownCo, we haven't seen much of each other. His end of the year schedule (both work and school), my long hours spent working, Jazzfest and friends visiting from Atlanta combined to keep us from seeing much of each other. I think that's best, not wanting to intrude upon his end of college time. Now the family is arrived: his father (The Husband...) yesterday morning and The Oldest & The Youngest, yesterday evening. Today, Sis Mer from Houston, her husband and two of their three will arrive. We'll find each other at the ceremony, deploying our cell phones as locating devices in the Louisiana Superdome.
Of course, I cried like a baby at yesterday's Baccalaureate, a beautiful mass accompanied by exceptionally beautiful music, honoring the graduates. I doubt many could know how difficult it was to get here for us, how hard how many people worked to make it happen. His first couple of years of college were a time of crisis in our family and without help from extended family and, especially, Loyola University, we wouldn't be here right now. Mostly, I need to thank Middle Son, who worked so hard to not just make it happen, but to make it happen here, even when that meant working full time or close to full time for the last two years to contribute to his living and learning expenses. I couldn't be prouder of him. He chose the perfect University, and I have to include all of the difficulties that came along with being here during this time. We were lucky in the flood and its prolonged evacuation, losing only a semester of college, but I am quite sure that he wouldn't trade anything for having lived this history. It has all only served to make him, make all of us, love this city more. This is the perfect Mother's Day present. I'll be bustin' with pride and filled to the brim with gratitude today.
Happy Mother's Day, y'all. I know mine is. Peace.
The "good" pictures are in the camera (at least I hope they're "good"). The Youngest still has it (somewhere in the French Quarter - pray for them), but sometimes speed trumps quality, so here's the one I snapped with my cell and emailed to myself. The Youngest has his face all scrunched up but I think y'all can still tell how cute he is. Middle Son was so happy. So was I. It's been such a nice day. Dinner later with extended family at the restaurant where Middle Son has worked for the last two years. The one hit by one-hit-wonder Semisonic, "Closing Time" contained one lyric that I think perfectly describes the bittersweet nature of moments like this: "every new beginning comes from some other beginning's end."
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Another Update: I failed to mention one of the coolest things that Loyola did. Obviously, the Superdome is a huge venue and challenging for families, leaving from spread out upper level exits (maybe terrace level is the correct description?), to find their graduates. When the graduates exited on the lower level, a brass band was playing to greet them. The grads were able to call their families and tell them to follow the music, which continued to play for some time as everyone gathered. It was lovely. It was New Orleans. It was perfect.
Congratulations. You should plan to spike the ball in the end zone...
Congratulation to your son, and you! Good job Mom!
Felicitations to your graduate and yo you! I would have cried through the
ceremony, too. (And as I've discovered, I don't have to be personally
affiliated with anyone involved in the ceremony to be moved to tears.)
Congratulation re: your son, the Graduate. Hopefully you'll be home soon,
with some down-time? "Closing Time" does seem to fit your entry. Happy
Mother's Day!
Congratulations to you and your son! You both worked hard and deserve the
time to celebrate. Oh, and feel free to continue to beam with pride!
Hmmm.... I thought I left a comment yesterday to the first four comments,
but it's not here so I s'pose not.
A very nice report, SM. Happy Mother's Day, Happy Graduation. A fitting
combination.
Ooops, should have typed "condenses," not "consenses." Anyways... Happy
Mom's Day again!
What handsome boys! Congratulations to your son and Happy Mother's Day to
you!!! (Hope you got your camera back. I'm sure the pics will be most
interesting.)
Wp, that was lovely. I hadn't thought of "commencement" like that (duh) but
you put it beautifully. Thanks so much for wandering over here and
commenting.
What a great day! The boys are gorgeous and middle looks like he's over
the moon. I went to a Catholic college and I have to say, from what you
indicated re: assistance, and overall sensitivity and ceremony, there
really was a big difference than where I went to grad school.
Congratulations to all of you!
Congrats to you and middle son!!!
Congrats regarding your boys. Glad you had a great Mother's Day. I see you
future and it only gets better.;]
Aside to Laurie, oddly they don't seem to want to give me that camera! It
seems to have made it's way to Keowah Island, SC. I strongly suspect that
when I see it next, it will have a brand spanking new (blank) memory card.
Speaking of pictures, I stopped by your blog and your Grand Fabulous
Daughter sure is getting big and is still totally beautiful.
congrats to you and your fam! i had a blast meeting you too, and am often
in sore need of good motherly advice, so hanging with the mother hens =
always a good time!
Alli, didn't we have just the best time??? I think I can safely speak for
Dangerblond that we both remain available to you for any motherly advice
and time and that, should you not need motherly advice, we remain available
for partaking of fine food, drink and conversation!
Congratulations to you and your son! Graduations are such joyous occasions
and all the "pomp and circumstances" are worth it!
I've been thinking of you and hope we can get together before you go back
to ATL!
Thanks, darlin'. I'd love to see y'all. The Dangerous One and I lead pretty
dull lives. Work. Work. Work. I am going back soon but prolly not for long.
Not sure when (maybe as late as next Wed.). Will keep you posted. The good
news is that we'll need at least 2 trips to get Michael's stuff home, so
I'll be back at least 2x between now and end of June even if KSDCo doesn't
send me (and I think they will). We'll talk. Thanks for stopping by. Hope
all is well w/ y'all.
Aside to Madame Ovary: I can't find your blog. I use to get there via Red
Head Girl but can't find her either. If you subscribe to comments and see
this, please email me soph underscore mom @ yahoo dot com.
SophMom I have a link to Madame Ovary on my blog in the right hand gutter.
Those are two very handsome boys (or should I say men) bookending a
beautiful Mom. Congratulations to your youngest and to all the people and
organizations that made this milestone possible.
J-W, we gotta get you some glasses! That's Middle Son in the, well, Middle.
Youngest on (our) left, Oldest on right. I took the picture. There are some
with me in it but they're in the infamous camera last seen by me in the
French Quarter, thought to now be at Kiawah Island. Thanks, though, for
stoppin' by, with or without your glasses. I hope all is well in your
world.
Howdy, ma'am! Sorry I didn't get to tell you and yours hi and
contgratulations at Baccalaureate and Commencement. So congratulations on
getting another ray of hope past the Loyola hoops and on the road to
something special. Peace, C
Mr. Clio, thanks for stopping by. I have to admit I was surprised to see
you Friday (not sure why... turned into a *duh* moment), and somehow missed
you Sat. in the low light (despite excellent seats). Would have loved a
chance to talk. I thought the entire thing was so well done. I could go on
for a very long time about how positive his experience as a student and our
experience as a family has been. I'm very sad to see it end.
I must be slow because I couldn't figure out what "underscore" mom meant?
Underline? I have a new address: madamovarypart2.blog-city.com. Thanks
for such a warm welcome back.
Congratulations to you and Middle Son. Way to go!
Thanks, Madam. I've added a link to my gutter so I'll always be able to
find you and left the answer to your underscore question on your blog. :)
I'm a little behind these days, but congratulations! That is a perfect
Mother's Day.